The reoccurring motivation in each of these seven road movies was two men going off to find something. The belief was that when they arrived in Singapore, Zanzibar, Morocco, Utopia, Rio, Bali and Hong Kong, their lives would become better. The characters believed that they would find the success (loosely defined) they were looking for and then be happy. Well, it is obvious that their arrival at each destination failed to produce that--there were seven movies after all! This should tell us something.
Millions of people are creating their own series of Road Adventures. They believe that when they get that degree, marry that person, get that promotion, land that job, or earn that first million they will be happy. They believe they are on the Road to Happiness! Yet, when achieve each goal, they find that the happiness they sought for has alluded them. And, they set off on another adventure only to repeat the process again and again.
The truth be told; there is no road to happiness. The reason being is that happiness is not a destination. Happiness is not a place to go to but rather a place to come from. Promotion, money, relationships, education do not produce happiness. Happiness is an inside job. Happiness does not come through external stimuli but rather is created in the heart and flows from there. This what the Apostle Paul meant when he stated Philippians 4:10-14
"I've learned by now to be quite content whatever my circumstances. I'm just as happy with little as with much, with much as with little. I've found the recipe for being happy whether full or hungry, hands full or hands empty. Whatever I have, wherever I am, I can make it through anything in the One who makes me who I am." (Message Bible)
Happiness is something I decide to be. It springs form my decision to not allow externals to influence me. You see, there will be times when things happen to us that are beyond our control. They happen to everyone. This is what we refer to as "LIFE." You cannot change the circumstances. But what you can change is how the circumstances affect you. And, if you fail to learn the lesson each situation of life brings you, you will repeat them over and over again.
